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Posted by fatorangecat @ Sun 27 Aug, 06, 06:07PM under Misc
Well, it's been months since my last update on this site. This time, i wanna post something differently. Nothing Sigmund Feud. Nothing abt Life is empty & meaningless.... Instead, it's a very simple yet meaningful lyric that i wanna share with my all loved ones here.
Juz watched this Brother Bear 2 with shaun and jonathan. Well, acherly, they didn't really watch it except for the 1st few starting minutes... not that it's boring. juz that both baby shaun & monster jonathan's attention span last onli for 10 minutes most for movie :) Again, like Brother Bear 1, my tears dropped at the end of the story... As usual, Disney never failed to put a happy ending in its cartoon movies. This time BB2 is not exceptional as well. At the end of the story, for the greatest Love, Nita willingly transformed herself into bear bear, and Nita & Kenai eventually get together and live happily ever after... this sounds too ideal in this real world leh! I love the ending song very very much. It's (It will be me) sung by Melissa Etheridge. Very rich & meaningful. Well, Good things are meant to be shared... :) It will be me – Melissa Etheridge If you hear a voice, It the middle of the night, Saying it’ll be all right, It will be me. If you feel a hand, Guiding you along, When the path seems wrong, It will be me. There is no mountain that I can’t climb, For you I’d swim through the rivers of time, As you go your way, and I go mine, A light will shine, and It will be me. If there is a key that goes to your heart, A special part, it will be me. If you need a friend, call out to the wind, To hold you again, it will be me. Oh, how the world seems so unfair, Creating a love that cannot be shared, As you go your way, and I go mine. A light will shine And it will be me. I see ever after, There’s a place for two, In your tears and laughter, I’ll be there for you. In the sun and the moon, In the land and the sea, Look all around you, It will be mine. There is no mountain that I can’t climb, For you I’d swim through the rivers of time, As you go your way, and I go mine, A light will shine, and It will be me.
It will be me… it will be me.
Posted by fatorangecat @ Sat 10 Jun, 06, 09:21PM under Misc
In a personality evaluation test during my participation on a communication course recently, the group members were required to write 5-6 personalities for each others, including ourselves. There were 2 Friends & 6 acquaintances in my groups & they perceived me as: Friendly(6), Cheerful(4), Open Minded(3), Humor(2), Rebellious(2), Talkative(2), Smart(2), Kind, Joyful, Strong Personality, Supportive, Polite, Active, Adaptable, Sensible, Outspoken, Opinionated, Well Groomed, Positive, Neat, Actor (Not natural), Arrogant, Responsible, Dramatic, Dynamic, Creative. And i wrote myself (disclosing the personalities that my friends do not know): Inflexible, Indecisive, Unreasonable, Lazy, and Nasty :)Human being likes to make assumption and tells story. We never stop doing that! We are actually a story telling machine! We pick up clues, all the time to support our story and to make ourselves believe to the story that we tell, most of the time (being self righteous all the time!) To me, an authentic friendship/intimacy relationship will only come from we being loving and open to each others. And this really requires strength, courage and honesty to do so. Ones must always do ""self disclosure" to avoid others' assumption and to avoid the so called "perception distortion". Juz like the above personalities test... i do agree with a few of them but not most of them. My friends, please be open... i wont eat you, i will love you more instead!
Posted by fatorangecat @ Fri 02 Jun, 06, 04:49PM under Misc
I love Peanut Butter. The crunchy one but not the creamy one of course. I love Sex too! Well, considering at this stage of my life, it's said that this is my Golden Age of Peak Performance, both in Career and Sex! But, sad be told, neither both are in my peak performance now! ok, i know you guys are going to laugh at me... suit yourselves. This is not the intention on my post here :) Now, how could Peanut Butter got anything to do with Sex??? Please stay on with me till the end then you will know. I'll keep this short and i promise no more Part I and Part II for this topic :) Ok, i have this wild/weird idea, coming from my high interest in human psychology & the current "in" thing on NLP. i remember when i studied psychology during my stay in college time, there was this famous Noble prize winner scientist Ivan Pavlov's research on the Classical Conditioning regarding the human/animal learning behavior or something like that. To simplify, he used a bell instead of food to stimulate the unconditional response from the dog's salivation. Meaning, 1) Before conditioning; Dog sees food -> salivation happens. Dog hears ringer from bell -> no salivation. 2) During conditioning: Dog sees food and hears ringer-> salivation happens. 3) After conditioning: Dog hears ringer -> salivation happens. Below are the conditioning procedure as well as one of the examples for Classical Conditioning for your reference. http://www.psy.pdx.edu/PsiCafe/Overheads/CondProcedure.htm http://www.psy.pdx.edu/PsiCafe/Just4Fun/Jokes/ClassCondThesis.htm My NLP encounters started 4 years ago when i registered myself on one of the world top success coaches Tony Robbins' "Unleash the Power Within" seminar. I then further my interest of NLP searching and application by attending his advance "Date with Destiny" seminar. After that, I also enrolled myself in the specialize NLP course to deepen this subject and its application. However, I did not go further as NLP practitioner although it juz required me another step...a quantum leap :) Ok, NLP application is very very broad but i'll touch something very lil' particularly on Pavlov's Classical Conditioning. Hope this will help you to understand and apply it onto yourselves. It's very useful to break habits... particularly on quitting smoking. Gay, this is for you :). OK, to further simplify the processes & steps during NLP conditioning part... you hv to put yourselves in an extremely intense state of pain or pleasure then anchor it with stimuli (can be certain actions like body movements/ language like words and music/any objects like the bell & whistle in the abv examples and etc). This hv to be done with repetition of at least 3 - 4 times. Each times, with the same or more intensity state of pain or pleasure. Now, this is the main subject of my post here.... If my favorite Peanut Butter is the stimuli, the intense state of Pleasure is generated by my climax during having sex... and i repeat the conditioning a couple times! hmm... something interesting to think about... i have no doubts on Pavlov's & NLP's theory & application. Let's juz say, if my experiment were to be executed correctly & flawless with precise effectiveness and efficiency... I wonder, next time, if i see Peanut Butter, will i wet myself??? :) Or maybe the side effect may occur that, during Sex, i may smell my favorite peanut butter leh... but either way, i think is a win win situation. don't you think so?! ps: this post is not meant for treating ur weird habit neither does it serve the purpose of providing the intellectual knowledge of NLP and Pavlov's Classical Conditioning theory and application. I hold no responsible on your missed carry on your own experiment or whatsoever!
Posted by fatorangecat @ Sat 22 Apr, 06, 01:03PM under Misc
Finally, after many years of complaining on the frequent disconnection of my internet hook up... + my lousy ADSL modem got brown out by the lighting strike on last Thursday afternoon + the DotA gang decided to go for Blue instead of DotA lunch cyber cafe... Here i go, with the new AztechWireless Router (DSL600EW)!!!
And now, am satisfied with this new gadget's performance after running for 2 days with peace of mind has been restored. no more internet disconnection & complaining. Blue with joy & excitement except marakafa ddcat commented rawket BS KS'ed heroes as if he didn't KS'ed others with his feeder Zeus!!! t(-_-t)
Posted by fatorangecat @ Sat 14 Mar, 20, 11:44AM under Misc
According to a psychology research and development done by the well known psychologists like Sigmund Freud, Carl Jung and Kathryn Briggs & Isabel Myers, there are 4 main functions that determine how human being uses preference of personalities to react/response to the outer world as well as inner self. They are the: Don’t find this info interest you now??? That’s because your Dominant Function is kicking in now!!! Hahahaha… I know you are arguing at this moment with whatever solid reasons you have, and you are correct, my friends. That’s because your Tertiary Function take over your Dominant Function now! Friends, please hold on to my post here. You will discover more after this lengthy info. If you were reluctantly finished this article, that’s because you allow your Secondary Function to operate at this moment! J I shall continue now… Dominant Function is what we have been comfortably and consciously using it to sense making this very meaningful world and to react /response to certain situations, events & people. Our Dominant Function has been producing what we want, meeting our needs and helping us surviving through our life all this while. And thus, we make ourselves believe that our Dominant Function has actually formed who we are today or our real identity and personality (in fact, this is just our PERSONA!!!). We do not make choices in life but we do make preference instead if we only operate underneath the Dominant Function. Secondary Function is what we lack of or seldom use to react/response to this world. Not that we do not know how to use it just that we feel uncomfortable and ineffective when using this Secondary Function. In addition, for some people to use their Secondary Function, it means to them that it’s a loss of face/identity/self esteem. They will feel insignificant, and perhaps, so wrongful to give up their principles/beliefs/values in life or so and so forth. Our new possibilities in life will only be created when we are willingly using our Secondary Function to provide alternative to this outer world and our inner self. Tertiary Function is a double agent that acts as our defend mechanism to fully support either our Dominant Function or Secondary Function. That means, when we are operating underneath our Dominant Function, Tertiary Function will fully support and defend how we perceive the world and what we believe and hold tightly to our inner self. On the other hand, if we set aside our Dominant Function and consciously letting our Secondary Function kicks in to react/response to our outer world and inner self, the Tertiary Function will then fully support and defend how we perceive the world and inner self through the Secondary Function. We shall acknowledge the existence of Tertiary Function but not committed to its seductive words and our feelings generated by it. We shall approach with no hope and no fear to the Tertiary Function in order to make the new possibilities in life be realized. Inferior Function is what we have been developed unconsciously. It consists of our untapped hidden personalities that are right opposite of our Dominant Function. The Inferior Function will only be emerged momentary during crisis, outburst or situation that leaves us helplessly but we still need to encounter/face it, spontaneously. Because of we never use of our Inferior Function consciously, it occurs to others that it’s a primitive and childish way to react/response to this outer world. Note that, it’s only through the Secondary Function that we consciously exercise that our Inferior Function will then bring forth and counter balance our Dominant Function. To be continued… (How a crisis occurs that goes through the Functions).
Posted by fatorangecat @ Tue 07 Feb, 06, 04:42PM under Misc
Ah Miao occurs to us to have a dominating feminine energy than his muscular energy. Sad but true, he has been suspected as “gay” thus far. Today, He sent us the email (with highly important mark) the below: I HATE VALENTINE’S DAY and CHINESE NEW YEAR BECAUSE:Valentine’s Day- Grandma: Why are you sitting at home?Chinese New Year- Grandma: Got girlfren oredi or not???I HATE I HATE I HATE… One year later, same scenario: Chinese New Year-Grandma: Got girlfren oredi or not??? Miao: Maybe I’ll bring someone during Valentine’s day Valentine’s Day Miao: Grandma, this is my “boy friend”… Grandma: ….
aLAN replied then: Two years later, same scenario: Chinese New Year- Grandma: Get rid of boyfren oredi or not? Miao: Yes… Valentine’s Day-Miao: Grandma, this is my cat… Grandma: …
I voted this as the "Email of the Day"!
Posted by fatorangecat @ Mon 17 Oct, 05, 10:52AM under Misc
Quote to kick start my week with "What is called sympathy, kindness, mercy, goodness, pity, compassion, gentleness, humanity, appreciation, gratefulness, service, -- in reality it is love." ~ Pir Inayat Khan
Posted by fatorangecat @ Fri 23 Sep, 05, 01:58PM under Misc
Quote of the week "when love and sex align together, all the energy in the whole universal will converge in you and that's called ORGASM!" ~ TE
Posted by fatorangecat @ Thu 22 Sep, 05, 01:18PM under Misc
In a survey done with > 6800 men to find out what changes they would mandate to make women better. 15% said they wouldn't change a thing leaving 85% wanted to change, and fast... Her lack of sex drive 41% Her mood swings 34% Her nagging 21% Her insistence on making you guess why she' upset 20% Her emotional manipulation 18% Her easily offended sense of humor 13% Her need to talk about everything 13% Her inability to perform traditional female task (bake a cake, clean a bathroom, stay at home with the kids) 12% Her annoying friends 11% Her fixation on ther body and its flaws 8% Her laserlike focus on getting married and/or having kids 7% Others 8% 49% of men believe it's possible to change a woman. Here's how they plan to do it: Praising her when she does something right 49% Telling her when she does something annoying 11% Dumping her if she doesn't shpe up 4% Withholding affection 2% Withholding sex 1% Withholding cash 1% Source from Men'sHealth.com
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