My mentor once tol me that there is Mr Nice who is afraid of own self looking bad, so decided to treat others nice. There is Mr Nice who is inspired by other's smile, so decided to treat others nice. Apparently, one is self-centered and another one is self-less act.

I said: "Doesn't matter. Ppl are happy with the kindness that i projected. Be it self-centered or self-less act. The ultimate result is the same. Ppl enjoy and smile ear to ear..."

He said: "Ppl only respect a person because of the authenticity projected from that person. Take the late Mother Teresa for example. Her vision of making this earth a peaceful place to live with, and her self-less act of contribution are what made her significant and well respected for. Even though she is no longer here, her legacy, her unconditional love, care and devotion to the poverty as well as all mankind, have touched, moved and inspired millions of follower. She was one of the greatest leaders ever exist in this world!"

He then asked: "This is so wrong to say but for the purpose of opening your blind spot, supposingly, Mother Teresa was doing this for the sake of her own need of Love and Significance; when ppl discovered her real intention, what do you think of the consequences & effect???"

I said: "Like some politicians, overclaimed to add values to ppl's life and underdelivered after being voted as representative. Ppl eventually disrespect and question their integrity. And soon, there will not be any followers and listeners".

He then say: "Good. The ultimate fulfillment in life comes from "growth & selfless contribution". The choice is yours!"

What do you think?